Lutheran Maid
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I wonder what you think. Are bitches something to do with nature or can they be nurtured, made in the right company? I guess that all of you who hope that your wife might become a bitch and treat you bad favour the latter argument. Me, I think its some of both and illustrate here.
The bitch nature
I was brought up in a fairly strict household where, unlike today, physical punishment was part of the parental armoury. Kids got the belt, or the strap, and of course it was no better at school where a cane or a ruler was the order of the day. You might debate nostalgia, society and discipline, but I raise the point to explain that even as a kid I was well capable of manipulating things so that my brothers got the strap from my dad. It was kinda a power thing even then, a bit devious, and a bit cruel. I was daddy's girl and used to getting my own way, which the brothers learned over time. Not that the boys weren't capable of some nasty tricks of their own. My dolls weren't meant to have Hitler moustaches. What i think I'm saying, is, that as I grew up, I liked humiliating, i liked seeing others brought into line and if that was something contrived by yours truly, then so be it. So now, having a boyfriend that orders my husband about, seems very sexy indeed. I don't have to rule, myself, at least not overtly and all of the time, I can have my husband brought to heel by the bigger man. Psyche that as you will, but I think it says something about the natural bitch.
The bitch made
I've certainly become more of a bitch because of the company i keep. The arrogance of the men that I see rubs off on you. They are arrogant about style, about their social charms, their sexual prowess, and of course their great looks. Over the years I've learned to read men, especially white men. There are certainly those that aren't self confident, they never were. They were always followers, tribal troops as it were. But more interesting still are the males with some esteem but which are in the process of having that bred out of them. They are so hung up by feminism, but equality, by political correctness that they are fast losing any masculine authority. Those guys don't know how they are diminishing. They think that they are 'modern', 'nice' and considerate. Being with my boyfriend has taught me to put those kinda men down at parties. I talk to them as if they're not very impressive, as though they are sort of 'add on' to the event. Of course they see me with my black boyfriend, and some of them accept that this is inevitable. Once you're bedded that way, then the attitude comes along too. But I'd say its not just the fucking, the comparison, it is learning to be hard, because your man expects it. You're hard because you know its going to heighten what you do together in bed.
There you are. As the examiners used to say at school…critically discuss!
The bitch nature
I was brought up in a fairly strict household where, unlike today, physical punishment was part of the parental armoury. Kids got the belt, or the strap, and of course it was no better at school where a cane or a ruler was the order of the day. You might debate nostalgia, society and discipline, but I raise the point to explain that even as a kid I was well capable of manipulating things so that my brothers got the strap from my dad. It was kinda a power thing even then, a bit devious, and a bit cruel. I was daddy's girl and used to getting my own way, which the brothers learned over time. Not that the boys weren't capable of some nasty tricks of their own. My dolls weren't meant to have Hitler moustaches. What i think I'm saying, is, that as I grew up, I liked humiliating, i liked seeing others brought into line and if that was something contrived by yours truly, then so be it. So now, having a boyfriend that orders my husband about, seems very sexy indeed. I don't have to rule, myself, at least not overtly and all of the time, I can have my husband brought to heel by the bigger man. Psyche that as you will, but I think it says something about the natural bitch.
The bitch made
I've certainly become more of a bitch because of the company i keep. The arrogance of the men that I see rubs off on you. They are arrogant about style, about their social charms, their sexual prowess, and of course their great looks. Over the years I've learned to read men, especially white men. There are certainly those that aren't self confident, they never were. They were always followers, tribal troops as it were. But more interesting still are the males with some esteem but which are in the process of having that bred out of them. They are so hung up by feminism, but equality, by political correctness that they are fast losing any masculine authority. Those guys don't know how they are diminishing. They think that they are 'modern', 'nice' and considerate. Being with my boyfriend has taught me to put those kinda men down at parties. I talk to them as if they're not very impressive, as though they are sort of 'add on' to the event. Of course they see me with my black boyfriend, and some of them accept that this is inevitable. Once you're bedded that way, then the attitude comes along too. But I'd say its not just the fucking, the comparison, it is learning to be hard, because your man expects it. You're hard because you know its going to heighten what you do together in bed.
There you are. As the examiners used to say at school…critically discuss!
