Donna would rarely swallow when she went down on me but that changed over the last few years, there was some give and take and now she gets her fun and I get mine and man does she give a great blowjob, although it’s been a while since she has done it my wife was now sitting between my legs, wiping the last bit of my cum from her lower lip, a slight smile on her face. "Damn, that was good." So how did I get here, let me explain, it all started about 4 years ago after many years of trying to talk Donna into doing others, she finally said ok, she would try. Dana is 39, 5' 5", 155 lbs with blond hair and 34D breasts, the breasts sag a little but I love them and she looks great for her age.

Soon after her relenting to my request we were going through Tinder and other apps looking over who was available, she picked a younger guy, 30, from the other side of town. She talked with him online a few times before we arranged to meet him at a hotel not far from his place. He knew I would be there, I was shaking I was so nervous so I could only imagine how she felt. Donna looked amazing in a sheer white top with a lace bra, you could almost make out her large areolas if you stared long enough, but clearly, you could see her nipples protruding, she had on a short black skirt and heels. She had on panties but I talked her into taking them off and now the panties are in her purse.

We got there a few minutes early and had a drink. When a pretty handsome man walked in, I will admit, quite athletic compared to me, I could see why she picked him. He sat down, and we all introduced ourselves and chit-chatted, over another drink. Donna and I had worked out a go, no-go signal and she was all go! I put the room key on the table and said they should go if he was applicable so were we. He picked up the key and went over and pulled her chair for her, I have to tell you, I could hear my heart beating as I watched them walk to the elevator.

I had asked to watch but Donna said no, she did want me close but didn’t want me in the room so I went to the bar for another drink. She had said, "Initially, I would never be comfortable with you there in the room," The waiting was torture. I thought about going up a hundred times and listening at the door, or walking the floor, but didn’t. Then about 45 minutes later I saw him in the elevator coming down. He walked by me, smiling, waved, and left. I was up and in the elevator within a few seconds.

Dana was still naked in bed laying there, she looked amazing. I went to the bed and asked, "Is everything ok?"

She smiled "Yes, I enjoyed myself." I wanted to know a ton of details, I wanted her, I want everything instantly, and didn’t know what to do first. My hands started to slide up and down her naked legs, then her back, I saw the condom in the trash so I knew she wouldn't be full of cum, but still I wanted to fuck her badly, waiting for an hour downstairs had left me so pent up I was going nuts. I asked her if I could join her in bed, but she said no. She could see my face and said later that night in bed we could be together, AHHGHGH the waiting was hell!!!

I asked a million questions, and she answered the best she could, they had kissed for a good 10 minutes she said, by then she had almost stripped him and attacked him. (To her kissing is very intimate and her weak point, it makes her very hot. We had talked about kissing beforehand, she had brought it up saying she was unsure she would kiss another person which to her was very personal.) she said after they had made out, and striped she was soaking wet, which he noticed and took as a green light. He began sucking on her tits, while his fingers explored her pussy and found her clit. She said he was magical and quickly had her on the edge of Cumming when he stopped and moved to insert his cock. She said it was about 10 minutes later when she finally orgasmed, with him Cumming a few minutes later.

At that point, she said we should get going, she got up and got dressed. We were in the car on the way home my mind was racing as in my mind there was a lot of time left since he was with her for about an hour, so I asked what else happened? She hesitated for a minute but then said they had talked after for a while and he ate her pussy to orgasm again, then asked her to blow him, so she did. She told me how she had moved around to suck his cock, and how she did it, until he exploded in her mouth and that she swallowed it all.

The next week, she had a low period, that period of time I hear many couples or wives go through with that feeling of regret. Did she do the right thing, was she a slut, a bad wife. I reassured her over and over, telling her I was very proud of her, and that she should embrace her sexuality, I told her that she should not feel bad at all, since it was me who asked for this from her and I thanked her many times.

Over the next few weeks she told me more and more details I had asked about, how big was he, how she liked it, and so on. The encounter spiked our sex life for many weeks but it was only a few days or maybe a week after the first time when I asked her if she wanted to do it again? She said she was in no rush so we kept the guy’s number but asked her if she would want to do him again or find someone else and she said maybe, but maybe someone else, when she was ready.

It was at least 6 months later before she was ready to do it again. It went about the same, a different guy, but for the most part, it was very similar and very exciting. The next time was 3 months after that and she was open to the first guy again and he was more than happy to do her again.

This time she did go bare with him, after they finished, I again, like the first and second times, asked if I could have her after and this time, she said ok. I had never had seconds before, and this was beyond exciting! The feeling was amazing, so warm, so slippery with his cum filling her pussy like no lube ever could or would. As you can imagine, I didn’t last long and soon was filling her with more cum, it was fantastic!

The next year she only met with someone maybe 4 times, I always asked for seconds, but she did not go bare every time and when she did she was not open to letting me have her right after, but it became a trend I guess for me to ask. It wasn't until the 3rd year that she finally got into it, and started to enjoy the sex and meeting men more openly. She met a few strangers and soon had 2 FWBs she could call. Playing safe was the smarter way, but not as fun for sure.

Soon she was very happy and playful with the whole thing. We had fun with it. Getting seconds soon become the game plan. Then one day she said, “OK, this is it, from here on you can only have seconds, I hope you enjoy fucking me for the last time without another man’s cum in me!” I about fell on the floor, but she was serious. With a smile, she said, “You like it too much, so you should get it that way.”

So lots of talks, lots of back and forth with a lot of “OK, buts, what if, how about this or that?“ Soon it became a game of sorts between us. We had found a way to enjoy sex, and she was enjoying a better sex life and she controlled it, sort of.

So back to the original question. How did I get to enjoy that blowjob from my wife? Well, here are the rules I guess some might call me a cuck, but who cares, I love what we have, and we make it fun for each other.

The rules or whatever you call them, are what we came up with together over a few weeks of talking once she told me I had fucked her for the last time.

  • I can only fuck her if she has cum in her, well, see #2
  • If the guy fucking her is new, and they use a condom, I have to use a condom.
  • When she is with someone, when he pulls out or she is dressing, she will text me, tell me, I have 8 hours to fuck and cum in her. We both set an alarm, the first one to go off, ending the 8-hour window. So this happened twice, I didn’t make it home from work in time and missed my 8-hour window totally which sucked, and had to wait. The other time I was fucking her when her 8-hour alarm went off, she pushed me off her mid-stroke, saying out of time. She started laughing so hard, she almost pee’d.
  • Since I can only fuck her with cum in her, I want to fuck a lot too, so she has a 2-week window, that if she has not fucked anyone, I can then find her a date.
  • I use Tinder mostly, and when I find someone, she can reject my choice but only 4 times, the 5th guy, if it gets to that point, she has to at least meet for drinks.
  • She does not have to fuck any of them, but if she picks one or we are at number 5, she does have to meet them for drinks and see. One of her FWBs was a 5th guy she didn’t want to meet but the rules are the rules, and wildly this one worked out.
  • The BJ. So she was never one to swallow which you get used to over time. One guy she was with taught her all about cucking and like I said, "Maybe I am one in some way?" One day she had gotten home, and I was all eager to fuck when she said she wanted me to clean. That will stop you in your tracks. I knew full well what it was, and was not overly eager to do it honestly. She had this smile on her face, like wondering if I would or not. Seeing my hesitation, said, "OK, new options or rules. You clean, and I will blow you within the next 5 days." My ears perked! Damn, she knew I loved BJ’s so finally, I asked her to promise and she said yes, I said ok, and cleaned, and she came hard which was hot. So, then I got my seconds.
  • As I was pulling out, she said wait.. which I was like.. hmm.. ok.. what.. she said, "If you now clean your own, I will give you two blowjobs, and, I will swallow both.”
  • This was one of those points in life that is hard to explain, I had just cum, and as most of you guys know, you cum, and the interest meter has moved to the left a lot, but swallowing, man, and a second BJ, I went for it.
She does not ask every time for me to clean, and unless she asks, there is no blow job. I made the assumption once and cleaned without being asked, Later she laughed and told me, "It is like Simon says, and that I needed to pay more attention"

For those playing at home, yes, I only get to fuck her if she has been fucked, and as I mentioned, this is 3 to 4 times a month. We do have sex I would say at least once a week not including all these times. I eat her all the time, and no, she won’t let me fuck her, but will encourage me to jerk off while she plays with my nipples or if I have them banked, I can have one of those blowjobs. She will let me fuck her tits, or her legs, anything, but no fucking her pussy.

We are, well she is, much happier, and in turn we are, as they say, happy wife, happy life! It's not for everyone, but this has worked for us now for almost 18 months.